6 Good ways to Resolve that conflict in your Relationship

  “A relationship is not a bed of roses,its how you look           challenges in the face that makes it a bed of roses"

If you think relationship is a bed of Roses,then I don't think you know the meaning of being in a relationship because in the midst of the roses there are some thorns,so get that. "Conflict" is one thorn in a relationship that has led to a sink in many relationships..It's not even about the conflicts because they're inevitable,But it's how two people deal with conflict that can make or break the relationship.So tell me how do you resolve your conflicts??

1.  DO NOT RAISE YOUR VOICE

When your emotion clouds the clarity of what actually happened, If the other person is yelling, it is very important that you don’t raise your voice also so as to prevent escalation of two contrasting  interests because this will get things worse.

2. FIND A WAY TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT NOT WHO IS RIGHT
 Focus on trying to discover what’s right, not who is right.
Try to think about what led to the argument,When thinking about what happened, do not try to bring to light who is right or wrong,instead evaluate what went wrong solely on the action that took place..

3. OWN UP
Acknowledging your part in the situation is not what you just want to do out of pride but its the surest way to kill the conflict to prevent it from escalating into a senseless breakeup..

4.  KILL "BUTS"
But destroys so many things even the strongest of exoneratios,you might own up to your part in the issue,but when you put "but" in the middle of your acknowledgement,you've ruined it all because you just killed your acknowledgement..

5. TAKE A BREAK!
Instead of lashing out your arguments and having a replay of the scenario in your mind,why not sleep over it,Get some rest take it off your mind.At least this helps to reduce or kill the issue in no distant time..when you feel so upset about it,take some time out,take a walk,read books,watch your favourite TV Series rather than pondering on the issue.

6.  MAKE FUN OUT OF IT
Hmmm I love this one,just imaging laughing out loud or saying something very hilarious in the midst of the conflict.your partner will either shy away from the argument by saying "stop it please its not funny" (deep down it funny to them)or they will happily return your laughter or jokes for a coy smile..End of story..

So tell me What are ways you resolve your conflicts?

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Be Every Man's Dream Not Everyman's Nightmare

You want to be everyman's dream and not a nightmare right?
Now read through these tips below.

1.  DRESS DECENT
As the saying goes,dress the way you want to be addressed.you dress like a prostitute and you want to go for a decent man,Excuse me,but did I just hear you say decent? Because its not possible.
Ever wondered why the indecent types come your way?then you've got to check what you put on before stepping out of the house. Indecent Dressing will only drive the decent ones.

2.  BE YOURSELF
Never be a photocopied version of anyone,Do not claim to be what you re not, be real to yourself and to other.I mean what's the essence faking your personality?
If you love yourself you won't live a life that's not real,why not be an example. To others? no matter what be real.

3.  LOOKING GOOD IS GOOD INVESTMENT
DO YOU solely and highly put business first?yes this is very important to tag on the priority list,but you also have to invest in yourself  and not just on other thingsyou should know you are part of our business?always dress smart,look pretty make your hair well kept,you don't know who you will come across.

4.  BE CONFIDENT
Be bold,be brave and be strong!!

5.  LET UNIQUNESS BE YOUR TRADEMARK
Live your life based on you don't leave life like others do,live your life in a different way,see the beauty of life the way others do not see it,have a unique perspective about life.
There's no one who won't get attracted to a unique Lady.

5. BE PRINCIPLED
Set standards for yourself they it help  alot.know what you love and have your limits,stand by you word,be decisive stick with living life in your own terms.
This will give you a level of high self esteem and people will see this in you and respect you and your intergrity.

6. THE COMPANY YOU KEEP TELLS WHO YOU ARE
What type of friends do you keep?Are they the type that drool on the clubs table? Flashes their cleavage?Smokes? These type of friends change your lifestyle negatively by their influence on you.To the extent you won' even know when you Have gone far in living life wild beyond repair.
I must tell you,the type of friends you keep can either make or break your personality.Of  a truth one studying you from a distance could go into conclusions right there because of the type of persons you move with.
Having decent friends around you is being influenced positively by theirdecent lifestyle.
These days serious men do not just settle for a lady just like that,they make inquires  about how you live your life,the friends you keep?and what you do with your life.
you won't evengg know this,thats why you keep wonderig why the right one doesn't exist...

7.  BE INDEPENDENT
AS A Lady,ITS important you invest,Do not depend on anybody but you,have a strong entrepreneurial mentality,learn something that can put some cash in your account,think of something new.Do not wait for Mom or Dad to give you money for your upkeep,Or your future husband to lead you into greener pastures.
I am not saying indulge in illegal activities,that's not the only source of making a living it will only destroy you with time,Indulge in legal and decent jobs,be your own boss as time goes on you will discover your business has grown so big that you won't even be able to manage it on your own.that's when being an employee comes into practice.

8.  BE A ROLE MODEL ON SOCIAL MEDIA
What example do you show to others on social meda.?are you the type that expose your body? Or you post nude pics just to get attention,or you post nasty status,and you feel you getting attention by becoming the Queen of Facebook or instgram or twitter,do you think this will help you? It will only destroyed you because you getting the wrong attention and tommorow when you want to hold a vital position,this alone can destroy your being approved and also a guy might be interested in you,and would just want to check you out on Fb,and sees the rubbish you display,do you think he will be serious with you?he will only use you and dump you.
Do you know that people are watching your every activities on social media?I guess you don't know this.Do things that will get the right attention,the earlier you command respect on social media by your positive post the better Fo you.

9.  SHUN CHILDISH NICKNAMES 
Point of correction,having a nickname isn't bad but it should have a reasonable reason.  I have come across many nicknames that do not have meaning,and look so childish! I mean what's chibaby? Or "hotchick".Are you using  it to get attention? Or to boost our personality?
Truth is your nicknames have the power to make or break your personality.

10.  MAINTAIN GOOD HYGIENE
Do you know that the scent that follows you can force persons to chase after you or drive people from coming around you?Do you pay less attention to your body?and you feel just using deodorant will kill that poor hygiene? Sorry but truth is you only killing yourself and people around you.learn to maintain good hygiene.
Men loves a very cool Deodorant coming from a body with rich personal hygiene..

11. RESPECT YOURSELF
having a very high level of self respect is very important,when you do things that will soil your image you tend to make people take advantage of you.But self respect shuns this.

12. THINK LIKE A MAN ACT LIKE A LADY
Just because you a lady doesn't mean your thoughts are limited think the way a man who has responsibilities thinks,coz you also have responsibilities and act like the lady that you are..

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Its Not What You Think! 7 Things Single People think

Wondering why you are still single? Then read these 7 things that tells you your thoughts can be your enemies...

"LOVE IS CRAP"
Do you think Love is full of Shit,Just because of the challenges one faces being in a relationship?Yea at times love could be full of shit but that's what makes it love,being in a relationship is not a bed of roses as said Earlier,Its going through tough times embracing impefections,going through hell.
Now that's what being in a relationship is all about.Ever wondered why Dating couples  love life waxes stronger? well its because they went through hell but yet were not consumed by the flames..

2.  "ALL GUYS ARE THE SAME"
Just because your boyfriend broke your heart,and after sometime you dated and the later did same.Then you come to a conclusion that you not lucky with guys.Anyway you so wrong,Because everybody isn't the same Just because A,B,C broke your heart doesn't mean D will.You are what you think and anything you say that will come your way.
This thinking will only Shut Mr Right from coming your way,because you have made this belief NO.1 on your principle list..

3.   "BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP ISNT JUST RIGHT FOR ME"
Yea  I know where this thinking is coming from,You might have been heart broken,or You wonder why relationships work out for your friends and others and doesn't work out for you.Well to say the truth,you are not them and they are not you,you are yourself so stop thinking you cant have the best relationship just because you compare yourself to others.They are living in their own world so live yours..

4.  "I'M NOT GOOD ENOUGH"
The moment you start looking down on yourself no one can look up to you,Just because you so fat and Chubby or so slim or Doesn't mean you not good enough,These feelings are what leads to you having a low self esteem,place yourself high,love yourself appreciate how God creates you and when you do this others will appreciate you and want to come close.

5.  YOU THINK YOU UNDER A SPELL
Most singles,they feel they have been spell bound and held spiritually to not be in a relationship, this has led to many going to native doctors or fake prophets in the process using their hands to destroy their destiny.little do they know that  there's power in the tongue and in thoughts.how will you Subject or belittle yourself by giving room for the devil to come in such manner.but its So its so unfortunate you don't know what God has in store for you..

6.   "TRUE LOVE DOES NOT EXIST"
Seriously? If there's no true love how come you still alife? If you didnt  have true love for yourself do you think you will still be alive? I leave that for you to ponder on,So tell me who told you there's no true love?Do you think Married couples just loved themselves before they tied the nut? No they discovered there was a love more than love which is true love..
And if you think True love is just so full of roses and  not Experiencing any complication in a relationship,then I guess its time you change the meaning of true love in your dictionary..

7.  "I'VE NOT SEEN THE PERFECT MATCH"
You've Turned 26 And yet you have not seen the right one abi? You wanting your Patner  to meet all your requirements,then you should also be ready to meet your partners requirements.which is equals to impossible,Coz obviously two impossibles just clashed..

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Why The First Person You Should Love Is "You"

 You passed through childhood stage to being a teenager and Oops! All of a sudden you are now in your Adult stage.Its just like a dream right? At Some point in life you've just Got to say goodbye to depending on family and put on your seat belt because you

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Dating The Wrong Person?10 Sure Signs

ARE you in a relationship where you have this strong feeling your partner isn't just right for you?You try your possible best to believe anything he or she tells you,And you feel your relationship just don't feel right?
If you feel this way,I think its time you confirm your instinct about him or her..

1. EXCUSE ALL THE WAY
When your partner always gives excuse for every singe thing,He or she claims they  don't  call much because of always been busy, and when you experience this you say to yourself "hes not caring" My dear he or she doesnt just show lack of concern for you,he doesnt love you get that! if your patner gives you the 24/7 excuse my dear theres no love there,no matter how busy your Partner is there love, they will never click the excuse icon!

2. YOU TRY TO MAKE IT WORK 
I tell you! When you the one always trying to put your effort in trying to  want to make your relationship work and your patner doesn't even care how the relationship stands,You the one who wants to try to make days memorable at least to create memories in the relationship,you want you two to travel,have fun,go on site seeing but unfortunately your partner doesn't see interest in all these things or shy away with one or two excuses..

3.  HE DOESNT MENTION YOU TO FAMILY
When he doesn't make attempt to introduce you his family members.
Then you should know some one is already been introduced,you just on stand by as far as I am concerned!.

4.  NO PLANS?
When Your partner doesn't even have a reasonable goal for the relationship not to talk of having plans for how the future will be,he or she doesn't like talking of where the relationship is going,and if you ask them were you Stand in the relationship they are fond of saying something unreasonable or they will shy away from your question or they get angry.

5. NEVER SHOWS UP FOR YOUR MEMORABLE EVENT
Your patner claims you are special,he or she loves and cant do without you blablabla!! How will you feel when he or she doesn't show up for your graduation?Or doesn't show up to celebrate with you should you get a promotion at your work place and most especially birthdays.I know you asking what if something very important took place,even if something very crucial happened and  he or she apologises then what happens to Other days when he or she does the same thing?

6.  YOUR FEELINGS KEEPS TELLING YOU HES NOT RIGHT
Does a voice keep telling you he's not real?or your relationship doesn't just feel right?admist your partners dramas?hmm your instinct must be right.

7.  FINDS IT HARD TO INTRODUCE YOU TO HIS FRIENDS OR INTRODUCES YOU AS "FRIEND" TO HIS FRIENDS
I mean who does that? You two fall in love,experience ups and downs,deal with situations together and all your partner does is say "meet my friend" to his friends,Or he wont even introduce you to them atall..
Awwww awww it hurts dear,Because it shows he's not proud of you stall and he doesn't love or even like you self,such a person can kill...

8.  POOR OR NO CONNECTION
when they find it hard to call or text you or don't even do any atall but on rare occasions.Connection is one very strong basis of a relationship if its not there,then its just a "replaytionship"

9.  YOU FEEL YOU ARE SINGLE
When you are in a relationship,where you feel you are lonely and you feel single,what does that tell you?

10.  NO CARE 
You are just there,he doesn't care if you have eaten,how your day went,finds it hard checking on you to the extent you call to let them know you still alive.

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13 Strategic Ways To Win Her Heart

You've found that special some one and you want her to be yours,but you dont know what to do,how to start,and who to run to yes! I just used the word "Run to" because actually its an emergency issue, you wont be the only one trying,So you've got to strive for what you want,to do that read and be guided by these killer strategies..

1.  FIRST AND FOREMOST BE "YOU"
Do you think we love when you fake it? Not atall we don't.Truth is, you can't keep up with it,and when we get to discover,You just ruined it all.There's nothing like being real,and making a girl love you for who you are,you won't have to go through all that stress living a fake life and you will have that peace of mind that she loves you for real.But if you decide to Be fake and claim who you not and you think you've won her heart dearie sorry but you've not because she doesn't love you but the fake you..So being real matters a lot.

2. TAKE THINGS SLOW BY BEING A GOOD FRIEND FIRST
But nawa ooo,Some guys just feel the best way to her heart is just badging in,Nahhh! if so you got it all wrong,the best way is to be friends with her first,be that person that can tell her were she's wrong not withstanding her reaction,one that can play with her like a brother,joke her,tease her,have quarrels forgive each other,this will make her rely on you greatly and in most cases her feelings for you will grow very fast to the extent she would wish you two were more than friends.
During this time you also using the avenue to study the kind of person she is if really she's good for you,all depends on your observations and findings.

3.BE CONFIDENT
Take it or leave it,One thing that attracts her to you is your confidence,when you this sluggish and dull type you doing yourself no good because you won't be able to express yourself,but when you are an embodiment of confidence you can express yourself and speak up for yourself as this is a plus.

4. HAVE A GREAT SENSE OF CREATIVITY
Guys listen up,Being creative is not making some awkward move or bathing her with gifts just to impress her or even using your bank account to please her No!
Learn to think outside the box,which is not trying to do what other men do to impress a lady,do things that no one has done before,put up your thought into your date.So you will make her feel special and different from every other girls.

5. BE JOVIAL
awww I so love jovial guys,who are so full of humour,free and humble to the core,they motivate me and get me Close.Be free have that fun you wanna have with her,make her laugh,show her with you theres never a dull moment.This will make her go fond of you and free with you.

6.  ADD HER TO YOUR PRIORITY LIST
Yea! Sure make her a priority,while you at work make a call to check on her,let her know even at work you have her in mind.Even when you back from work connect with her and tell her how work went.Make sacrifices for her.

7.  TAKE HER UNAWARES BY SURPRISES
I assure you she's so gonna love it,surprise her with things she loves.Let me give out a little trick try to study her closely by knowing that colour she loves through the clothes she wear or ask her about the things she loves,her favourite meal,her favourite colour,places she loves going and so on, she might just think you asking Because you want to know her better.

But Just think of this,How do you think she will feel,when you get her that nice purple gown, hmm purple thats my favourite colour anyway lol, She's not gonna only love it but she's gonna love you because that was a pretty gown with her favourite colour,she might even forget she told you her favourite colour,but you did remember which is a plus.

8.  BE CARING
Girls love it when they are treated like a queen,You love her so much and you want her to be happy always, do things that will make her feel special,check on her often,make sacrifices,shower her with surprises as said previously.Show her you mean what out doing and that you damn serious about her,Be nice to her,share her problems,encourage and motivate her often.Even when you are out of the country or the state,show her she's always in your heart by calling or texting atleast.

9.  BE FINANCIALLY CAPABLE
Yes,I won't put this out,Its not that some ladies do love money alot No! What they love is you being industrious.You must have the cash to make her feel special but spend responsibly and not foolishly.
There's in no way a lady will settle for a lazy Partner,who can't secure themselves financially.So tell me if you can't secure yourself financially, how can you secure her???

10.  MAKE YOUR FAMILY HER FRIENDS
If really you are true and you serious about her,you won't fail to create a good relationship between her and your family members.

11.  MAKE HER MISS YOU
At times be available that's when you have at least make her go fond of you,other times be less available,this will make her wonder why you've not shown up or called for some time,and definitely she will be forced to make the calls to ask how you doing,and your reasons for not calling or checking up on her..Good news is,she just called to tell you she's missing you!

12.  BE GOOD LOOKING AND A CLASSIC MAN
Dress the way you want to be addressed,doesnt just apply to the ladies alone but the guys also,if you dress in an  indecent manner like what is known as the "Agbero dressing" don't just border to approach her because she wont even give you a chance trust me on this.Your appearance and the way you look, is a very strong tool and a great contribution of winning her over.So always dress smart and classic have your hair look neat,have a nice skin..result is you will  make heads turn especially that of the ladies..
     
13.  BE ROMANTIC
yes! Its part of the Strategy be romantic,have a strong knowledge of being romantic,don't just be good at other things without being good at being romantic..Make that move by doing something that would take her by surprise..she ain't suprised,she just loves

                    

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What Are Relationships of These Days Called? Dating or Prostitution?

Many people lack the meaning of relationship and thats why some of them  are living a life of delaytionship..The funny part of it is,its a nothing goes for nothing stuff where the lady dates him and submits her body to him,then he in return provides for her financially..
This is what is in vogue now were the girl performs her so called duty and the guy does his,Now tell me,Who is a prostitute? A prostitute is a female who sleeps with men for a living. So tell me what differentiates her from a prostitute?

The most funny part of it is some ladies don't realise this,they feel sex is what keeps a relationship strong,because they have been blinded by the fact that the guy have to get used to their body or they should be good in bed,these are pure LIES! They are only using you as a lab rat, and if you yield to this belief of sex being a  screw that makes a relationship tight and stronger, you have only made the so called guy believe you are the good in bed type and not the marriage type.incase you dont know guys are very smart when it comes to marriage.Which many girls do not know!

Ladies Here are some words of advice for you to change your mentality:
1. Have self worth,do not make who you are dating your source of income,do not depend on him for money show him you not dating his money but him and show him you can do without his money if you don't ask for his money,he won't ask you for sex.
I am not saying don't ask but let your asking be once in a while,when you do it once in a while he will over respect you by giving you more than you even asked of.

2.Never cry over a guy or your boyfriend should they break your heart,this has led many girls taking their lives,he is not worth your tears and by the way you are not married to him.

3.Never show a Guy you are madly in love with him,once you show him that,he will see that as your weak point and use this your weak point to take advantage of you,by I cheating on you because he knows you the crazily in love girl,that will surely come back to him..be wise!!

4. Know when your boyfriend only wants to use you as his sex toy,does he always try to want to use strategic means to sleep with you?does he always try to romance you even when you two are on a normal conversation?and when you resist him does he get angry at you?if so he doesnt love you he just wants to use you to flex his muscle..
If he loves you he will respect your opinion by stopping his "annoying romantic attempt" when you say no.

5.Do not fight with a fellow girl over a guy or your boyfriend,My dear if he is for you,he's for you.Real men are too expensive to be taken and secured to be stolen..

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You Are To Blame Not Him: 11 Reasons Your relationships Always Sink

Some ladies are so curious that beside their. beauty,Intelligence,wealth and so on why do they still end up in relationship breakups,why can't they have a long lasting and strong relationship,do you ask yourself these questions?
I think the fault is yours and not that of your partner,or that your girlfriend you are suspecting or the witches in your village,These reasons will give you a sense of realisation and they will help you adjust..

1. Negative Thoughts

This is the most trendy problems most ladies suffer,Are you the type that feel he no longer loves you just because he doesn't call often? or cause he cancelled a date just for reasons not known to you and this makes you feel theres another girl occupying him.

My Dear you might be wrong,Just because he stops calling doesnt mean he doesnt always have you in mind ,what if he is facing one or two challenges but you won't know coz your wrong guess has so eaten deep in you that you won't even know when you break up with him just because he doesn't call which would be very foolish of you because if you have not given your negative thought room in you and made attempt to call him to check what the problem might be for not calling,he will open up to you.

Pls my fellow Sisters,If you don't know this let me break it down for you Negative thought is an evil spirit that feeds you with lies and in the end pushes you to do what you are not suppose to do,and when you realise the damaging effect of what you have done, that evil spirit abandons you and that's when you now notice that you were not supposed to do it according to your negative voice and it might be too late to make amends in the end,if this applies to you,you better give that negative thought a quick notice..

 2. Looking At Others To Try To Make Your Relationship Work
Just because Your girlfriend dangles a car key to your face telling you how her boyfriend buys a brand new car as a birthday present every year,Or your friends are taken on trips every week and you don't enjoy this,Or You always see that beautiful girl always everywhere with her man, doesn't give you the right to want your boyfriend to do same.

If you look at others in Life you become a photocopied version of the original copy this can ruin your relationship greatly because you can't leave the way others do they are living their own world and you are living yours,so always learn to be be grateful, and Appreciative to your partner and your partner should do same.

Learn to set standards for yourself,enjoy every bit of your relationship as you and your partner go through the good bad and the ugly,always be satisfied with your love life..
#its better to be an example to make peoplle admire and envy you,than for pole to set examples for you#

3. When Your Relationship Screams Boring
Of a truth a boring relationship is like a human with a broken spinal cord,to make your relationship work,you've got to have fun moment with your partner,men loves vibrant and lively ladies,Include jokes that will make him lol,be playful around him,do annoying things that will make him scream out loud,pillow fight! I love this one,but please don't play to the extent of hiding his document oooo..

Nobody wants to experience a boring relationship coz its as good as dead coz its so not gonna work atall.This is another very strong strategy of getting your relationship firm.that would even make him cry like a baby when he travels for business trips for like a week,coz girl! you making him miss the playful girl that gave him a playful spank before he enters that plane..

So girl if you experience boredom in your relationship I think its time to go for some play practice.

4. Not Using The "Okay Fine! I Admit It I Am Wrong" Statement When Necessary
 Guys hate it when you wrong and you just wanna be right,this turns them off totally,My dear its the gospel truth,I am not saying  always admit you are wrong when an issue comes up all I am saying is admit you are wrong when you know you are.

Not that claiming right when you wrong adds up to your bank account or beauty o,it will only extend your relationship status to 3 more years or lead to a break up for you Because he won't want to put a ring on your finger if you do this almost all the time it will result to him being scared of you always doing the wrong thing and claiming you right and this can lead him to his early grave..

5. No Understanding
 Know who you Dating,Some ladies are just so lazy that they don't even know and understand their partners and in the end they end up having tons of argument which could lead to a daily routine if care is not taken.

its is always advisable that you know every thing about your partner,when I say everything you know what I mean,ask questions,his background,what he does coz nobody wants a broke lazy man,ask about his worldview,what he likes and what he hates, you should also be able to study him and so on and make him ask you too and besides he's definitely gonna ask you except he doesn't have a goal in the relationship.

Getting to know each other helps youtoknow who you are dealing with.This is one very strong key to securing your relationship coz if you guys don't know each other then the compatibility is 0% because once you don't understand him you cant know how real he is.

 6. Laziness
Wow! I love this tell me I'm not missing this out,Dear I need this,Dear I need that,Dear I am broke,mostly Send me recharge card almost all the time just because your boyfriend happens to be the presidents son you feel he's your ATM machine right? My dear he wont only try by all means to avoid you,he will also break up with you and flush the respect he has for you down the toilet because you will only make him feel you love his money and not him.

so please if you do this often stop it now!!
Guys loves hardworking ladies,they don't just love but respect them,some ladies say when a lady has too much cash men will be scared to come their way,my dear its pure lies being a hardworking woman scares men who are not worthy to ask them out it takes a bold and intelligent buoyant man to make this move so change that mentality now...

No guy will settle for a lazy lady so the earlier you get that the better for you!

7. No Respect
This is another V.good reason,lolz some people call it "Red skirt" Nobody will want to be in a relationship with one who has no respect for her partner or even anybody.

I believe respect should start from you,if you respect your self you will have the ability to Also respect your partner..

8. Uncontrolled Visit
Ladies who loves constantly visiting their partner know this,Especially that moment when you visit your patner more than he visits you,i mean who does that??? You will only loose your self worth and be labelled a pest because Nobody wants to be bugged.

You might do this constantly thinking you are doing your relationship good,my dear you ain't doing it no good you ruining it.

If you not in his office,you at his home most especially when your visiting him is 70% and he's is just 30 my dear you better check your visiting meter and adjust it accurately.

9. Pride!
Yes,you are beautiful,even your mirror says that all the time,you are smart,you are wealth and educated,all these are your qualities any one has but you get so proud just because you have one or two unique qualities,are you the only beautiful girl in the world?

Let me give you the main fact,your beauty is nothing without your brain,so use your brain to know that beauty don't last forever,but what makes it last is your brain so use it well.

10. Bad Listener
If you are a talkative aka parrot queen,then you are a very bad listener.Your relationship can't last if you are a garrulous talkative.
Men respects ladies who talk less and say more.

11. The God Is Absent Relationship
How in anyway can you expect your relationship to last when God is not included?just tell me how?I guess you have no answer. any relationship without God in it is useless.

Let me give you a very big secret, by asking you this simple question who created you? God did and he understands you more than your parents do and you do,when you include God your relationship is on a solid rock my dear.get that!

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Welcome to Gifties Blog: About Giftie's Blog

Hi Readers,Welcome to Gifties blog,wondering what this blog is all about right? Okay let me give you a brief intro about this blog,Ever wondered how to find solutions to a problem? Actually your answer should be yes because the society needs you to solve one or two problems And yes!! Thats why i came up with This blog in my name because no name will have been better than mine,so I decided I solve some problems through  writing.

This blog is created to solve problems on relationship and gives awareness on what and what not to do in relationships,in essence its a relationship blog that would keep you coming for more strong articles..

Happy reading.Giftie

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