Why The First Person You Should Love Is "You"

 You passed through childhood stage to being a teenager and Oops! All of a sudden you are now in your Adult stage.Its just like a dream right? At Some point in life you've just Got to say goodbye to depending on family and put on your seat belt because you

The one riding Next,Not your Mom,Dad Uncle or Aunty.This is what we call growing up.One of the most amazing thing in Life is Living with your Family,Surrounded by friends and Your Coursemates.Because you have people around you who make you laugh,annoys you or Gist with you.But Guess what that will be all gone when you start leaving on your own,when you far away from family friends and want to make a stand in life this is what is called the "Adult stage of your life".

And During this stage of your life,you start thinking of what life has to offer you,Your Job life,paying of Rents and taxes,And so on.No One will care to know what happens in your days except you,Because they have their lives to live.You are responsible for your life and in all ramification you are in charge of piloting your Own plane,No one will do it for you.Definitely you still have friends around you in some way and you still reach out to your family,but On a very Serious note the plain truth is you are alone completely.

Yes! This could be the most challenging part of your life,But you have to stop the worries,Stop being anxious about how life would look like for you in your later years.You have always been that strong Lady or Guy who can adapt to any Situation in life Right?So what happens to now?

When I was in my Finals back in the University I was always worried,About what will become of me after school, the what,how,where and when was always what started and ended my Day,And with time thinking about life became part of me and this led to A Surge of Anxiety growing within me i couldnt even think straight anymore,Do you feel this way?Not until I was Adviced by a Friend of Mine,who told me if I love myself I should live life as it is,He made me understand that, Procrastination's Other names are Worries and Anxiety they only Kill your time,waste your energy and when you realised your mates have gone far in life it would then dawn on you that, things you worried about never exists,but were just your imaginations.

And all those time I discovered I was only Killing my being,That's when I discovered I was selfish to myself because i never Tried to take risks and Never made attempt to accept mistakes and move on,Thats When i realised i just have to love myself because No one Can love me better than myself..

So start living the life,Go for things you have passion for,Get a good Job,Invest into that business you've been telling Mom and Dad about and be your on Boss with your own entrepreneural Mentality.

All these been said all sums up to loving and accepting yourself.Without Self love,You cant love any body else or even talk of falling in love.Sorry to tell you this but you cant go into any relationship when you dont love yourself,who do you want to love when you've not cultivated the habit of having self love.

 Have you been able to set goals? If not start now,be determined on the goals you set for yourself and strive to reach each goal with the mindset of a winner.Think positive and Shun Negative thoughts,Get inspired by books,Watch movies that inspires you,Listen to music's that inspires you,Be surrounded with People that can influence your lifestyle positively.

And As time goes on You will get Used to living life and Rock life as an Adult,Because you've Adopted the lifestyle of Loving yourself.