But the issues I am going to be talking on today is what have been going on For a very long time,what baffles me most is most girls think the best way they will feel accepted by the opposite sex is by passing their head through a tiny needle,Just to make him want you as time goes on you will ask yourself if its really worth it because the guy you are trying to please might not be the one who will take you to the alter so why all these craps?
The issue I am going to be addressing in this part is,the issue of bleaching,then in those days bleaching was done to correct dark spots on the skin and treat other skin issues,but today it seems civilisation has made bleaching a necessity for the purpose of civilising the skin to a certain satisfaction.
Bleaching is the Application of chemical agents on the skin so as to Reduce melanin from the skin which result into skin lightened up. Like I said earlier this medical process was to correct some challenges the skin might be suffering from but this process has been taken for advantage as its what's in vogue now by people most especially the girls.
But why do Most girls really bleach? Most girls go on a quest for beauty by bleaching because they feel being light is beautiful and that's what men loves, Others use this to boost their Self esteem because they feel intimidated by their fellow light skinned girl and they feel being black is not good enough for men so this affects them psychologically and results in them bleaching, another reason for this is through peer pressure all your friends are light skinned so you want to be like them..
Today you see a dark beauty experiencing low self esteem just because she feels shes not good enough for the guys then tommorow you see she's so white you can hardly see her under the hot scorching sun,she forgets being loved is not by pleasing but its a matter of the heart.
Girls believe men go after the light skinned girls,this is the main reason many of our Nigerian girls bleach their skin out,so just because you were dark you feel when you turn snow white men would flock around you 24/7?
Let me gave you the the fact, The problem of guys taking many ladies for advantage is because of you and I, why? Because you feel you don't just have to dress to impress them but also change skin like a snake just to please them.And do you know these guys you try to please also Kill you with their mouth unknown to you?
You see a situation where a Lady will go as far as commitng suicide just because a guy broke her heart,no let me correct that,she didnt just commit suicide just because he broke her heart,she did it because after all the living to impress a guy all she got was to be rejected,while others go as far as putting their life on the line by under going skin civilisation(bleaching) for no good reason other than make your boyfriend get attracted to you the more or get attracted to you just because you observe he is attracted to light skinned girls,My dear you should know that attraction nowadays is a matter of ones personality and the heart not by undergoing skin civilisation.
There's one thing most girls fail to know,when you try to do this,you expect much from the guy because to you,you can't just spend all that money on yourself just to be appreciated by guys and in the end you get little attention from the guy you dating.My question to you is what if he can't meet up? Are you going to break up with him,or you stay,To you I guess this question is between life and death.
Some girls are so ignorant to notice the meaning of the world "Cliche" or "band wargon effect" which is an over used or accepted expression.Just because its all over the place that men likes light skinned girls doesn't mean its an accepted belief No! It isn't its just a cliche its not true.
Will you love it if your partner is dating you just because of your civilized skin?ask yourself,if you experience skin complications and eventually you go dark for a very longtime,do you think he will want to go on with you? Hell No! he wouldn't its at that point you will come to realise that he never loved you but your looks.
Most of These same men you try to please can differentiate a naturally light skinned lady from a skin civilised(bleaching) type,so don't be fooled.
Bleaching is a very dangerous process and your life and not that of the guys you are trying to please is at risk. What pains me most is the fact that these girls know they are at risk of skin cancer but they are still ignorant,because they feel ten thousand will fall at their right and a thousand at their to left but still no one will come near them,by the time cancer comes knocking at your door,you will come to the realization that cancer patients does exist.
You don't need to please anybody to love you,let's join hands together to make the joy of womanhood respected.
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