35 Relationship Advice to strengthen your Relationship

1. Just because you love and respect each other doesn't mean it might end up on t alter.be sharp!

2. When you start knowing love is a verb and not a noun,then I think you are good to go.

3. Do not go into a relationship because all your friends are into one or because you are lonely,go into a relationship when you are ready.Remember if you rush into a relationship, you sure gonna rush out!

4. The first person you should love is you because you can't love another if you don't love yourself.

5. If you think you are not loved the way you should be,try finding out if your partner loves you with all they have.

6. If you are searching for the perfect one,first of all try to be perfect and when you realise you can't be perfect that's when you realise theres no perfect person.

7. Follow your heart but when you notice it leads you astray,use your brain.

8. Guys If you notice she doesn't show you that love and care you need? Check if she's showing your money the love and care.

9. When you are in a serious relationship know your friends.Not every friend is your friend!

10. Playing hard to get to is not the problem,its doing it to the extreme when you play hard to get to the extreme you will be very easy to forget.

11.  Ladies have some respect for yourself,if you think you dating him,thats a lie,when you exchange your body for money in the relationship,You are a prostitute.

12. Do not fight with someone over a person you love.

13. Never cook for a guy,You are not married to him.

14. Love your partner for who they are not what they are.

15. If your self worth is not appreciated,then I think it's time to go for who appreciates you.

16. Do not tell the whole world about the challenges you face in your relationship,instead tell it to only a trusted person.

17. Do not please your partner against your capacity what happens to when you can't meet up?

18.  When your partner stops calling doesn't mean they've stopped loving you.

19. If your partner never introduces you to family,then introduce them to the door.

20. Music is a powerful emotional tool,it can soften the strongest of hearts,so never let music make you take drastic decisions.

21.  When you are over curious about your partners activities just because you might not trust them,then its high time you date  your curiosity.

22. Relationship is not a bed of roses it also has its own challenges.if you think its a bed of rose lie on it but when you get injured by unseen thorns that's when you realise it has its own challenges.

23. The first person you should love is you because you can't love another if you don't love yourself.

24.  When she always makes attempt to live,Assist her with packing.

25. If you are searching for the perfect one,first of all try to be perfect and when you realise you can't be perfect that's when you realise theres no perfect person.

26. When you observe or notice the arrogant and indecent types always come your way,then I think you should check your lifestyle and your dressing.

27. Looking good is good business but not to the extent you get a loan you cant afford to pay back.

28. If you think love is what makes a relationship then I don't think you have experienced ,commitment,created,loyalty and trust.

29. I'm Sorry doesn't kill.

30. I know it hurts when he or she walks out of your life,but if you don't feel the hurts now,expect to feel it in the future.

31. Do not let friends dictate for you in your relationship.

32. If your relationship is going to three, four to five years,its not normal either your partner tells you what's wrong or you walk out.

33 Know when to stay and know when to call it a quit.

34. Seeing is believing,don't conclude based on what you hear but on what you see.

35. As a lady dress Classy,as a gentleman dress classic.

I hope you yield to these Advice because they will really go a long way in your relationship..

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Your Friends and your relationship

Friendship is a mutual affection between two or more persons.Your friend is someone who share a strong from of interpersonal bond than even an association.

Do you know your friends also play a roll in your relationship? I know you asking me how,now let me tell you how,The type of friends you keep could determine how you pilot the plane of your relationship reasons being that,they in every way can influence you either on a positive ground or on a negative ground.

At Some point in your lives you definitely must come across the good bad and the ugly ones,The type of friend you keep can build you or destroy you it all depends on if you can Know the bad and the ugly from the good.

I am going to show you some characteristics of these two types of friends,so if you wnt to confirm the type of friends you keep read on.
This will help you know who your friends are

1. THE GOOD FRIEND

• They are Hard to find,Yet in most cases they are around you but you might not know it.

•They don't boast to you that they are good friends to you,instead you see good friends in them.

•They Never want to see your relationship go Sour,If you find yourself having conflicts in your relationship,They try to give you the best advice.

•They laugh at your mistakes and sure get you back up to your feet.

•Yes! The truth is bitter but they tell you the truth.Because they know its better to tell you its fire than allow you know for yourself.

•Even at your back they will never betray you.

•Your Instinct keeps telling you they are Good for you,and in most cases you wish you knew them long time ago.

•Their Lifestyle portrays who they really are,you respect them because of how principled they are.

•When you are going astray,They try all their possible best to bring you back.

•They will always tell you if you wrong and give you reasons why you are,Should you have a fight with your patner.

•They are a good Source of example to you,that's why you look up to them.

•If you in most cases find your self telling them "what you said was really true" then you have a good friend who tells you the bitter truth,and won't want you to fall victim.

•A good friend will always respect your decisions,Even when they tell you they are against it,They will still respect it but deep down they know they've warned you.

•You always yield to their advice because you know they always give you the right advice And if you should go against their advice,you know you might regret it..so you won't want to fall into the "what you said was true" Situations all the time.

•They accept you for who you are No matter what.

•They are always with you,come rain or sunshine.


Now unto the bad friends..

2. BAD/UGLY FRIEND

hmmmm,they are the jack of all the evil deeds,The direct opposite of goof friends these types are everywhere.
Research has Shown that,Bad/ugly friends are the reasons behind relationship breakups.They are not necessarily ugly from the outside,They are like a very beautiful house from the outside,but from the inside they so scattered and ugly you will want to puke.
One thing about this type is that they don't just associate  with,they associate with you for many reasons.Either for benefit,or to destroy you or your relationship.

•They are mostly attractive on the outside but on the inside they are so ugly (green Snakes).

•When you try to avoid them is when they come closer..but Bad friends sha!

•They can't keep your secrets never,your secret is their news report.

•They allow you get the scars from the burns Rather than make effort to stop you from getting burned up.

•They don't accept you for who you are instead,they accept you based on who they want you to be.

•People always tell you they are not good and tell you to stay away from them.Some of these persons will not tell you why they said so,they want you to get to know why they said so yourself,while some will tell you why straight up.

•when you experience rough times,thats when they forget you exist..

•They gossip you and your relationship to others.

•Please I know definitely you have come across this type and you won't want to even give them a percentage of our trust,Please if you notice this type of person always and so desperately warns you about your partner especially when you and your partner are having a smooth relationship.before you even believe them thats if you do,Notice these two things, if they are in a relationship,or if they are jealous when you encounter achievements. Chances are they want to destroy your relaionship,because they cant have what you have.Use these two tricks to know if you will stick to their advice or not.

Be careful this type never want your Progress.

•They don't enjoy your company and are not around you for long,they show less care,the only way they come around is for their benefit.

•Watch out for the pull-you-down syndrome,they have lots of it.I know you are wondering why some of your friends suffer from this problem,why they try to pull you down is,They want to be like you or be better than you but they see they can't reach your level,So they think the best thing to Fo is to reduce yo by trying to reduce you to nothing.

•When you are having a blissful relationship they burn inside,no matter who you are with,they will always show a type of attitude around them.intact run from this type of person ooo they can do anything to ensure your relationship is in shambles.

•When people look up to you and when they see friends around you,they Get angry leaving you to wonder why they are angry this is because they are jealous.

• I once had a friend who is never happywhen i look good and when i am filled with Joy. So, If you wondering why That your friend or some of your friends never compliment you when you look good,then you should know they don't want your success they Die inside when they see you look attractive because they feel you will turn peoples attention from them to you.

What baffles me about some persons is that even when they know or find out they are not keeping the right company they don't care any more,I don't just know if that's the latest trend or something.
Anyway it all depends on you.

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13 steps you must take to help you move on and never look back after a break up

                         "It takes courage to move on,
                               its a great step
                              to Redemption"

At some point in life,we strive to always be loved in return by those we strongly love and value.But what do we Get in return from them? we get just the opposite of what we feel for them and what baffles me most is despite our cutting them off our lives,we still find out that there's just this big space they still occupy in our heart that we cant just get over them..

You have tried all you can to just get over them but instead they just keep coming strong in your heart. And that's because your trying wasn't  good enough.

Good news is, After you go through this tips,you can comeback to thank ma later.

Read also:why the first person you should love is "you"

1. CRYING YOURSELF OUT IS ALLOWED

If you think you strong enough to bottle up those feelings by holding your tears back,then its a sorry from me because you are not ready to just forget them.But when you cry and let it all out,you let fragments of the hurts,memories and the person all out.

Infact crying after a break up is a ticket of travelling to the "Get over" land because after you have spilled all those tears on your pillow or sofa,you will notice you are at ease with yourself at some point and in most cases no matter What you I'll never cry over him or her again.

It doesn't make you weak or less defensive,it only makes you strong because you know once you get it all out you tend to forget them sooner or later.

2. DO NOT DISCUSS YOUR EX WITH YOUR FRIENDS AFTER THE BREAK UP

you only bring back the memories of  the time you and your ex had together,when you bad mouth them to your friends or constantly talk about your ex  to your friend..

If you do this it means you still thinking of your ex and this will make you feel angry and used up.Instead why not have a good time with your friends by discussing on better issues that will be fun rather than waste it on your ex.

3. KEEP YOURSELF BUSY

Always try to keep yourself busy no matter what,learn some handy works,go for that job, indulging in these thing will help you  shift your attention off your ex.And when you do this you get to meet new persons that can turn your life around for the good.

Remember you are getting over someone,not just some one but some one you once loved so try as much as possible to not find yourself alone doing nothing,because you could fall back into that cycle of thinking of our ex.

4. AVOID STALKING YOUR EX ON SOCIAL NETWORKS

you want to get over him/her and you still checking on their facebook ,twitter,instagram and other social media account of thiers Just to check how life Is for them without you in it.

Then tell me when you do this how do you think you can get over them? Your doing this will only make you find it hard to move on with your life because truth being told if you do his you are still wallowing in your past.

Instead why not just live your life,do not block them just yet, let them see how well you are doing without them.I know you asking  how can i avoid stalking the when i still have them on my list? Well you can avoid stalking them while they are still on your list by taking your mind completely of them this is another way to revenge back without saying a word to them.

They will definitely  stalk you too just to see if you will have some sad quote on breakups blah blah blah,but how do you think they will feel when he/she always sees a picture of you doing what you love doing best ora picture of you with loved ones.its gonna make them know they were not  really important afterall and in the process,he/she will be the one to block you.ouch! This is just the sweetest revenge love.

5. TAKE YOURSELF ON A DATE

Go out,take a walk or if you have a puppy take your puppy for a walk and feel the cool breeze of the evening.make some special time for yourself,create a day when you will have enough time for just you but it should be on a free day it must not interfere with your normal activites,.

When you do this often it gives you the confidence that you came to this world alone so what's wrong living your life depending on yourself? there's absolutely nothing wrong there jor!

6. SEEK COUNSELLING FROM AN ELDERLY PERSON

If you want to have enough knowledge on your life,your relationship and breakups,Being counselled by an older person is sure worth the time,because they have come a long way in life and might have experienced lots worst than you have.

 7. PAMPER "YOU"

what are the qualities you love about yourself?what are the things you are good at?what have you accomplish so far?

At times its very important you take a pause from life challenges and think of yourself,See how far you have gone in life and  appreciate yourself for what you have accomplished so far and thank God for each day that passes by.

Read also:why the first person you should love is "you"

8. AVOID CONTACTiNG HIM/HER

Don't call or text them for any reason,this doesn't show you are immature.You want  to get over them right ?so why calling or texting?


9. MEET NEW PEOPLE

When you meet new people ,you get to make new friends,go places get connected to persons/Job opportunities,you get to have knowledge of things you have little or No knowledge about and also you get to know there are persons out there who still appreciate you.
So you see,one person should never spoil your career.

10. REMOVE REMINDERS OF THEM

Its very important that after a breakup you don't just cleanse yourself, by getting over your ex,you also cleanse them off your room by removing any picture that has to do with them,delete their numbers from your phone,delete their pictures from your phone,delete everything that has to do with them,this will kill every reminder of them from your life and help you forget they even existed.

11. THE POWER OF MUSIC

To tell you the truth,music is a medicine that keeps the body and soul in check, it heals a wounded heart and it has the power to soften even the strongest of heart.

When you find yourself in this situation listen to music that would make you happy and not music's especially blues that can get you back down the memory lane of you and our ex.

12. HANG OUT WITH FRIENDS

Friends Are a great breakup pill.they heal your wounds and make you realise how strong you're  when you  want to be wanted and feel lively, your friends are a sure best option  to helping you move on..

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Girls Code Busted! Know if she likes you with these 12 Tricky Signs

Hi Readers,its been a pretty long time huh? So sorry i have been away for too long.now let me bless you with this article as a Gift from me to you, for my  taking off unnoticed starting with the Guys i am going to give you some passwords to some of our many strong codes..I promise you would love it lol.Girls expect yours on the way.kisses

Do you have a crush on this girl but you don't know how to go about it? To the extent your having feelings for her have made blinded you to notice she also has feelings for you?

News is while trying to win her heart,you should also cultivate the ability of studying her closely and check for some signs to know if she is also liking you.

 Read also: 13 strategic ways to win her heart

1. CHECK BODY LANGUAGE:
This is a type of non verbal communication where the body speaks instead of the mouth.in most cases the females show their interest for for the male through body language,trick is they can't tell you they like you as you know,that's the fact so they show it through their body language.

Watch for signs of she playing with her hair or ear ring more than usual when you talking with her,legs crossed,hands supporting chin during conversation,in most case she extends her body language by touching you at intervals when conversing especially when you make her laugh a lot.

2. SHE PLAYS THE HARD TO GET
I read and hear of so many guys complain girls play the hard to get when they try to win her heart.

When a girl plays the hard to get,guys misinterprete it for pride while some feel she is not interested hello o this is so not true.
I know when we girls play hard to get it can be so annoying and frustrating for the guys! but let me tell you, if you trying to express how you feel towards her and  she's playing the hard to get don't just panick instead be happy because she has interest in you.

Why she does this is, she feels if she shows it all off by responding too quick you will take her for granted,her playing hard to get is a means of observing you and studying you and she believes that in the process of her playing hard to get if you stop showing interest in her it shows your interest in her wasn't pure which means you failed her test,but if you take all the embarrassment in the process of her playing hard to get and you still showing your interest it means definitely you are hers.

So Guys please change that belief that when she plays hard to get she's proud.she just wants to give you some tough time its normal,because shes scared of losing you that's why she won't say yes to you just that easily because she's scared you might take advantage of her..

She wants you to know what you passed through to get her,that's the more reason you will cherish her in the end my dear.

3. SHE REPLIES ON TIME
I tell you guys,when a girl likes you,she wouldn't joke with your calls and messages,When you Chatting with her, notice she doesn't waste time replying your whatsapp or Facebook message or any other social network to the extent you think she's a typing machine.
If you notice this be happy because it shows she doesn't just like you but you are important to her.

4. SHE STARES AT YOU AT INTERVALS
Do you catch her stealing glances at you at work,or across at the mall,in the church?infact almost all the time.
Tell you what,if she wasn't into you she won't even give you a second glance,that's Our way of telling you we might be interested in you.if you don't get the code,then you are on your own.

5. SHE BLUSHES
How does a girl blush?when a Girl gives you a shy smile or show some atom of being shy and nervous when you are around her in most cases,it shows she just feels so damn good around you.

This is one sure sign a girl can't hide,its important when she play the hard to get,check for this sign at times.She can't just hide it for so long.

6. PROLONGS CONVERSATIONS
Does she seem to prolong the conversation with a joke?or a funny gesture or even an important topic that requires much debate an long talks.its a sure sign she likes your company on phone or when you are around her and she also wants you to go fond of her.

7. SHE FEELS JEALOUS SEEING YOU WITH SOMEOTHER GIRL
When a girl has interest in you,she won't want to see you with any other girl,when you are in the company of girls or you are seen in company with just a girl,watch her gestures.

Nowadays girls won't show you they are jealous directly,but they will sure do it indirectly.so watch out for her facial expression,gestures and attitude.

 Read also: 13 strategic ways to win her heart

8. SHE CALLS OFTEN OR LEAVES A MESSAGE
Truth being said,if she has interest in you and if she places you at a very important spot in her life then expect calls and messages  from her often..

9. WHEN AROUND YOU SHE WANTS TO BE THE CENTRE OF ATTRACTION

At your place of work for instance or in the class,you notice she act some funny drama that make Everyone laugh including you.wait a minute did I just say including you?awww she just got your attention,how lovely..

 10. SHE TRIES TO MAKE YOU JEALOUS

Haven shown you shes interested through one or two  codes of hers,watch out making you jealous wont be out of one of her many codes.

She might use a guys picture on her dp with an happy birthday deary attached to it, or use any other means just to get your jealousy burn the hell out of you.


11. SHE COMPLIMENTS YOU AT TIMES

She won't fail to compliment your looks.Especially when you just so attractive to make heads turn..

12. SHE TELLS YOU SOME PERSONAL STUFFS

When you call to check on her and ask her how work went or how her day went,she will give you a situation report of how work was like for that day, the challenge faced and other issues and you should know once she does this she want to trust you and confide in you, hoping you will also be a friend to lean on..

If you notice some of these signs or all of it,you are a winner!

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6 Good ways to Resolve that conflict in your Relationship

  “A relationship is not a bed of roses,its how you look           challenges in the face that makes it a bed of roses"

If you think relationship is a bed of Roses,then I don't think you know the meaning of being in a relationship because in the midst of the roses there are some thorns,so get that. "Conflict" is one thorn in a relationship that has led to a sink in many relationships..It's not even about the conflicts because they're inevitable,But it's how two people deal with conflict that can make or break the relationship.So tell me how do you resolve your conflicts??

1.  DO NOT RAISE YOUR VOICE

When your emotion clouds the clarity of what actually happened, If the other person is yelling, it is very important that you don’t raise your voice also so as to prevent escalation of two contrasting  interests because this will get things worse.

2. FIND A WAY TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT NOT WHO IS RIGHT
 Focus on trying to discover what’s right, not who is right.
Try to think about what led to the argument,When thinking about what happened, do not try to bring to light who is right or wrong,instead evaluate what went wrong solely on the action that took place..

3. OWN UP
Acknowledging your part in the situation is not what you just want to do out of pride but its the surest way to kill the conflict to prevent it from escalating into a senseless breakeup..

4.  KILL "BUTS"
But destroys so many things even the strongest of exoneratios,you might own up to your part in the issue,but when you put "but" in the middle of your acknowledgement,you've ruined it all because you just killed your acknowledgement..

5. TAKE A BREAK!
Instead of lashing out your arguments and having a replay of the scenario in your mind,why not sleep over it,Get some rest take it off your mind.At least this helps to reduce or kill the issue in no distant time..when you feel so upset about it,take some time out,take a walk,read books,watch your favourite TV Series rather than pondering on the issue.

6.  MAKE FUN OUT OF IT
Hmmm I love this one,just imaging laughing out loud or saying something very hilarious in the midst of the conflict.your partner will either shy away from the argument by saying "stop it please its not funny" (deep down it funny to them)or they will happily return your laughter or jokes for a coy smile..End of story..

So tell me What are ways you resolve your conflicts?

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Be Every Man's Dream Not Everyman's Nightmare

You want to be everyman's dream and not a nightmare right?
Now read through these tips below.

1.  DRESS DECENT
As the saying goes,dress the way you want to be addressed.you dress like a prostitute and you want to go for a decent man,Excuse me,but did I just hear you say decent? Because its not possible.
Ever wondered why the indecent types come your way?then you've got to check what you put on before stepping out of the house. Indecent Dressing will only drive the decent ones.

2.  BE YOURSELF
Never be a photocopied version of anyone,Do not claim to be what you re not, be real to yourself and to other.I mean what's the essence faking your personality?
If you love yourself you won't live a life that's not real,why not be an example. To others? no matter what be real.

3.  LOOKING GOOD IS GOOD INVESTMENT
DO YOU solely and highly put business first?yes this is very important to tag on the priority list,but you also have to invest in yourself  and not just on other thingsyou should know you are part of our business?always dress smart,look pretty make your hair well kept,you don't know who you will come across.

4.  BE CONFIDENT
Be bold,be brave and be strong!!

5.  LET UNIQUNESS BE YOUR TRADEMARK
Live your life based on you don't leave life like others do,live your life in a different way,see the beauty of life the way others do not see it,have a unique perspective about life.
There's no one who won't get attracted to a unique Lady.

5. BE PRINCIPLED
Set standards for yourself they it help  alot.know what you love and have your limits,stand by you word,be decisive stick with living life in your own terms.
This will give you a level of high self esteem and people will see this in you and respect you and your intergrity.

6. THE COMPANY YOU KEEP TELLS WHO YOU ARE
What type of friends do you keep?Are they the type that drool on the clubs table? Flashes their cleavage?Smokes? These type of friends change your lifestyle negatively by their influence on you.To the extent you won' even know when you Have gone far in living life wild beyond repair.
I must tell you,the type of friends you keep can either make or break your personality.Of  a truth one studying you from a distance could go into conclusions right there because of the type of persons you move with.
Having decent friends around you is being influenced positively by theirdecent lifestyle.
These days serious men do not just settle for a lady just like that,they make inquires  about how you live your life,the friends you keep?and what you do with your life.
you won't evengg know this,thats why you keep wonderig why the right one doesn't exist...

7.  BE INDEPENDENT
AS A Lady,ITS important you invest,Do not depend on anybody but you,have a strong entrepreneurial mentality,learn something that can put some cash in your account,think of something new.Do not wait for Mom or Dad to give you money for your upkeep,Or your future husband to lead you into greener pastures.
I am not saying indulge in illegal activities,that's not the only source of making a living it will only destroy you with time,Indulge in legal and decent jobs,be your own boss as time goes on you will discover your business has grown so big that you won't even be able to manage it on your own.that's when being an employee comes into practice.

8.  BE A ROLE MODEL ON SOCIAL MEDIA
What example do you show to others on social meda.?are you the type that expose your body? Or you post nude pics just to get attention,or you post nasty status,and you feel you getting attention by becoming the Queen of Facebook or instgram or twitter,do you think this will help you? It will only destroyed you because you getting the wrong attention and tommorow when you want to hold a vital position,this alone can destroy your being approved and also a guy might be interested in you,and would just want to check you out on Fb,and sees the rubbish you display,do you think he will be serious with you?he will only use you and dump you.
Do you know that people are watching your every activities on social media?I guess you don't know this.Do things that will get the right attention,the earlier you command respect on social media by your positive post the better Fo you.

9.  SHUN CHILDISH NICKNAMES 
Point of correction,having a nickname isn't bad but it should have a reasonable reason.  I have come across many nicknames that do not have meaning,and look so childish! I mean what's chibaby? Or "hotchick".Are you using  it to get attention? Or to boost our personality?
Truth is your nicknames have the power to make or break your personality.

10.  MAINTAIN GOOD HYGIENE
Do you know that the scent that follows you can force persons to chase after you or drive people from coming around you?Do you pay less attention to your body?and you feel just using deodorant will kill that poor hygiene? Sorry but truth is you only killing yourself and people around you.learn to maintain good hygiene.
Men loves a very cool Deodorant coming from a body with rich personal hygiene..

11. RESPECT YOURSELF
having a very high level of self respect is very important,when you do things that will soil your image you tend to make people take advantage of you.But self respect shuns this.

12. THINK LIKE A MAN ACT LIKE A LADY
Just because you a lady doesn't mean your thoughts are limited think the way a man who has responsibilities thinks,coz you also have responsibilities and act like the lady that you are..

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Its Not What You Think! 7 Things Single People think

Wondering why you are still single? Then read these 7 things that tells you your thoughts can be your enemies...

"LOVE IS CRAP"
Do you think Love is full of Shit,Just because of the challenges one faces being in a relationship?Yea at times love could be full of shit but that's what makes it love,being in a relationship is not a bed of roses as said Earlier,Its going through tough times embracing impefections,going through hell.
Now that's what being in a relationship is all about.Ever wondered why Dating couples  love life waxes stronger? well its because they went through hell but yet were not consumed by the flames..

2.  "ALL GUYS ARE THE SAME"
Just because your boyfriend broke your heart,and after sometime you dated and the later did same.Then you come to a conclusion that you not lucky with guys.Anyway you so wrong,Because everybody isn't the same Just because A,B,C broke your heart doesn't mean D will.You are what you think and anything you say that will come your way.
This thinking will only Shut Mr Right from coming your way,because you have made this belief NO.1 on your principle list..

3.   "BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP ISNT JUST RIGHT FOR ME"
Yea  I know where this thinking is coming from,You might have been heart broken,or You wonder why relationships work out for your friends and others and doesn't work out for you.Well to say the truth,you are not them and they are not you,you are yourself so stop thinking you cant have the best relationship just because you compare yourself to others.They are living in their own world so live yours..

4.  "I'M NOT GOOD ENOUGH"
The moment you start looking down on yourself no one can look up to you,Just because you so fat and Chubby or so slim or Doesn't mean you not good enough,These feelings are what leads to you having a low self esteem,place yourself high,love yourself appreciate how God creates you and when you do this others will appreciate you and want to come close.

5.  YOU THINK YOU UNDER A SPELL
Most singles,they feel they have been spell bound and held spiritually to not be in a relationship, this has led to many going to native doctors or fake prophets in the process using their hands to destroy their destiny.little do they know that  there's power in the tongue and in thoughts.how will you Subject or belittle yourself by giving room for the devil to come in such manner.but its So its so unfortunate you don't know what God has in store for you..

6.   "TRUE LOVE DOES NOT EXIST"
Seriously? If there's no true love how come you still alife? If you didnt  have true love for yourself do you think you will still be alive? I leave that for you to ponder on,So tell me who told you there's no true love?Do you think Married couples just loved themselves before they tied the nut? No they discovered there was a love more than love which is true love..
And if you think True love is just so full of roses and  not Experiencing any complication in a relationship,then I guess its time you change the meaning of true love in your dictionary..

7.  "I'VE NOT SEEN THE PERFECT MATCH"
You've Turned 26 And yet you have not seen the right one abi? You wanting your Patner  to meet all your requirements,then you should also be ready to meet your partners requirements.which is equals to impossible,Coz obviously two impossibles just clashed..

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