13 Strong Self Love Quotes you don't want to Miss!

 "Self love is all about embracing who you are and not giving a damn if you are not accepted, you don't need to fake who you are just to be accepted or loved"

These quotes are so powerful that it keeps you pressing on for that inner you that waits to be revealed, so as to make an impact in others. And one thing you must know about loving yourself is how  you understand how you see yourself.

These Self love quotes got me having an examination on how I treat myself and mehn! Readers you don't wanna miss out on these:

1. No one can can love you without you loving yourself first,the gift of selflove is what you bring into a relationship because you are the relationship.

 2. Falling in love with someone is not about loving just their good sides but knowing heir flaws also and trying to change them.

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3. Love is a verb and not a noun.

4. Nobody can live for you if you die for them, dont kill yourself for someone to live, thats not love.

 5. Self- Love is not selfish it is the foundation for a healthy loving relationship, We must enjoy being ourselves, stop trying to be some else.

 6. All fulfilling human relationships stem from selflove that is cherished, valued and respected.

  7. A man can not be in love with you until you are in love with yourself.

  8. Love flows from inside to outside you cant give it if you dont have it, it begins within.

 9. True and lasting love depend on our openness and connection with ourselves,When love is not enough, patience and prayers wins.

 10. Love to a man means respect,to a woman it means care.

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 11.  The way you treat yourself will determine how you will treat others... Self-love is the foundation for true and lasting love.

  12. Love a gift of selflove, your level of self-love determines the quality of your gift of love to the one you love.Self-love is the spring to a lasting love.

 13.  You cant give what you don't have, real love must begin and flow from within you before it can flow to you.

By: LEA LAWRENCE

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Love or Madness? Guy rises from the dead then propose to his girlfriend

But seriously, I don't know if to call this civilized love or a Hollywood drama.I have heard of many surprise proposal but this? Its a big no!

This Guy plans with is friends to act like a dead man,So the girlfriend was informed of his assumed death and Ran to the scene crying and clinging to her booboo to come back ooo.

All of a sudden her boyfriend arose just like Lazarus was risen by Jesus leaving his girlfriend shocked..

That wasn't all, He collected a ring,knelt down and asked his girlfriend the four letter words "will you marry me?" And she happily says yes!

I beg my readers oo do you guys think this is the best way a guy should propose to his girlfriend? Because to me this prank is too expensive to thread with o.

We girls are so emotional and any awkward move made by the guys could turn us off totally..

I need your Answers,if you were to be in this poor girls shoe what will you do? As for me I would give him two expensive slaps for the expensive joke before saying yes!

Lol Nigeria is blessed jor there's nothing you dont see or hear of in this  Naija Sha!

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12 Strong Facts about "Dating" Ladies Need to know

1. Sex can never make him stay with you.

2. Giving out your virginity as a way to prove your love is called foolishness.

3. After giving your virginity out, he will surely change and you will be the one begging for his love.

4. Fighting another lady for snatching your guy is rubbish, you're fighting for who never loves you.

5. Proving that you are better than another lady will not lead you anywhere.

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6. Playing too much hard to get may change his mentality toward you.

7. Men don't appreciate it when you easily accept them and Men hate it when you play too much hard to get,so make everything 50-50.

8. Ladies Sex is not Love.

9.In most cases when you lose your virginity,He changes from being that serious guy to a guy that sees you as cheap! And eventually you get dumped! Ladies be wise,

10. If a man gets you pregnant out of wedlock, he will not suffer with you,only you will bear the shame and pains.Especially when he Denys you.

11. You don't need to please a guy just to earn is love,if he doesn't love you,don't try to make him love you instead,help him pack out of your life.

12. Don't always depend on him, what happens to when you two depend on each other? Learn to house your hands to do things yourself.

13. In a Relationship,you don't need to pretend to be someone else just to make things happen, what happens when you can't keep up?

AM I RIGHT.I know many women will not attest to this but deep down they know its the truth. Well, the truth is bitter and only the brave fews can withstand it..

By: JUMAI OCHUWA BAKO

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They met at the ATM now they are getting Married!! Check out their Lovely pre wedding Photos

Hmmmm Readers guess what? These couple found love through meeting at the ATM, I know some persons cant wait for me to give them the full gist, let's go there!!

Ukeme Obot who happens to be a journalist and Zenas Onyemaobi who is a computer engineer crossed path at the ATM.

Ukeme tells Enouwem Jim's Blog that they came across each other on Wednesday August 2015,The queue was so great that she had no option but to wait.

So it happened that Zena's friend complimented her hairdo and in return she said thanks in a stern way,You know we girls na we must make Shakara!

After all the waiting, the ATM stopped dispensing cash and guess what Rain added pepper and salt to the whole issue.

So Zena and his friend offered to help Ukeme to another ATM since they came in a car, she refused but after much persuasion to help her, she agreed.

After they were done withdrawing, it was Ukeme's turn to withdraw, So Zena asked her if he could wait for her so he could help her home since it was still raining, Ukeme accepted.

After she withdrew she hurried to the car unfortunately for her, she slipped on reaching there car This was were Zena helped the princess in distress by taking off his shirt to wipe Ukeme's Legs..

"That was were His gesture landed Us" Says Ukeme..

My Readers, that was not all ooo, while they were enjoying their picnic at the beach, Prince charming knelt down before his princesss and said the four letter words!! " Will You Marry Me"? Awwww! Ukeme was so blushed up that she couldn't even stop saying yes!

Thats Love for you it can be found anywhere, anytime and anyhow and fortunately these couple found theirs At the ATM..how lovely!

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How to Tell if you are truly in Love: 11 undeniable Signs

Yes!! we have experienced love, but as time goes on you will discover love is not all about moving from one person to another but seeing this person you love as the special one who cant be replaced and who you want to be with for the rest of your life,now that's an unbeatable love!

when you love this persons so much you will notice you have experienced these signs and when you do,Just know you've reached your last bus stop in finding someone.

This post applies to the Guys and ladies.

1. YOU CANT GO A DAY WITHOUT THEM

You know every thing abut your partner and definitely you want them  there when you’re happy, sad, tired, sick. You. Want to share your happiness,sadness,and everything there is to share.

This is a sure sign you are in love.

2. YOU ARE SCARED OF LOSING THEM

You don't want to do anything that would hurt them because you won't want to loose them..

And when I said being scared, its an issue to considered because, you are scared of losing them,you are scared of keeping them at the same time,you don't want to experience heartbreak like you did in your previous relationships.

But all the same you are.Ready to take the risk of having a life with them..

3. EVEN WHEN THE EXCITEMENT SEEM TO WEAR OF 

YOU STILL WANT TO BE WITH THEM

That moment when the fire of love burns at first then as time goes on it seems to go off but not withstanding you can still find your way.

That's how it is when you love someone even when the excitement seem to fade as the relationship goes deep,you still want to be with them..

4. YOU WILL DO ALL YOU CAN TO IMPRESS THEM

When you are in love with someone,you will by all means want to impress them in all ramification.

One strong power of love is we all have principles,but when it comes to the person we love,we are ready to break a principle or two to impress them..

5. YOU CAN CHANGE JUST TO MAKE THEM HAPPY

Note changing yourself is not about changing just to please them or faking your lifestye it means, you realise you have to be focused and know what you want.

When you come across someone you love, you tend to change for the better just to be with them.

6. THAT GUY/GIRL IS JUST SO ATTRACTIVE,BUT YOUR BOO IS MORE ATTRACTIVE!

That moment when you are in love with this person,and you are attracted to this Guy,he's tall,handsome,bodybuilt,well to do,infact he's just your type and then you remember the person you are dating and you say to yourself, "He's hot but my boo is hotter!

Now that's love dearie

7. YOU MAKE SURE YOU ARE WELL BUILT AND LOOKING GOOD

When you are with the right person,definitely you will always want to look your best.

So you work out,eat right and stay healthy just for them.

8. YOU THINK OF THE FUTURE WITH THEM IN IT

Definitely when you see the one that you just in no doubt know is right for you,you will always think of how you two can make it up to the future together.

If they are just for a short term relationship,you won't even think of including them in your future but for you to include the one you love in your future plans,then you re in love.

9. WHEN YOU TWO GO INTO A FIGHT YOU TRY AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT

When you two go into arguments,it shows its a way of understanding how you two can understand each other and when two of you are in a bloody argument,you won't want things to go from fry pan to fire so you try in all your power to make things right..

9. YOU SEE THE BEAUTY IN THEIR FLAWS

when you love someone you tend to know their flaws.And when you do,you don't just care about their flaws because no one is perfect instead you see the beauty in  their flaws.

10. YOU ARE WILLING TO TELL THEM ANYTHING

This is one very beautiful part of loving some one,you are so happy telling them both personal and official things,because you just have this trust for them.

11. YOUR FAMILY IS HIS/HER FAMILY

When you tend to love someone you will in all your efforts bring them close to your family and be close to his/her family.

I know this went a long way.You are free to add yours as the list goes on and on.

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Skin Civilisation! Do Some Girls Really have to Bleach to Please Guys?

I have come across many stories of Girls wanting to look good just to please the guys,I am not saying do not look good No! looking good is good business and you have to look good to be attractive.

But the issues I am going to be talking on today is what have been going on For a very long time,what baffles me most is most girls think the best way they will feel accepted by the opposite sex is by passing their head through a tiny needle,Just to make him want you as time goes on you will ask yourself if its really worth it because the guy you are trying to please might not be the one who will take you to the alter so why all these craps?

The issue I am going to be addressing in this part is,the issue of bleaching,then in those days bleaching was done to correct dark spots on the skin and treat other skin issues,but today it seems civilisation has made bleaching a necessity for the purpose of civilising the skin to a certain satisfaction.

Bleaching is the Application of chemical agents on the skin so as to Reduce melanin from the skin which result into skin lightened up. Like I said earlier this medical process was to correct some challenges the skin might be suffering from but this process has been taken for advantage as its what's in vogue now by people most especially the girls.

But why do Most girls really bleach? Most girls go on a quest for beauty by bleaching because they feel being light is beautiful and that's what men loves, Others use this to boost their Self esteem because they feel intimidated by their fellow light skinned girl and they feel being black is not good enough for men so this affects them psychologically and results in them bleaching, another reason for this is through peer pressure  all your friends are light skinned so you want to be like them..

Today you see a dark beauty experiencing low self esteem just because she feels shes not good enough for the guys then tommorow  you see she's so white you can hardly see her under the hot scorching sun,she forgets being loved is not by pleasing but its a matter of the heart.

Girls believe men go after the light skinned girls,this is the main reason many of our Nigerian girls bleach their skin out,so just because you were dark you feel when you turn snow white men would flock around you 24/7?

Let me gave you the the fact, The problem of guys taking many ladies for advantage is because of you and I, why? Because you feel you don't just  have to dress to impress them but also change skin like a snake just to please them.And do you know these guys you try to please also Kill you with their mouth unknown to you?

You see a situation where a Lady will go as far as commitng suicide just because a guy broke her heart,no let me correct that,she didnt just commit suicide just because he broke her heart,she did it because after all the living to impress a guy all she got was to be rejected,while others go as far as putting their life on the line by under going skin civilisation(bleaching) for no good reason other than make your boyfriend get attracted to you the more or get attracted to you just because you observe he is attracted to light skinned girls,My dear you should know that attraction nowadays is a matter of ones personality and the heart not by undergoing skin civilisation.

There's one thing most girls fail to know,when  you try to do this,you expect much from the guy because to you,you can't just spend all that money on yourself just to be appreciated by guys and in the end you get little attention from the guy you dating.My question to you is what if he can't meet up? Are you going to break up with him,or you stay,To you I guess this question is between life and death.

Some girls are so ignorant to notice the meaning of the world "Cliche" or "band wargon effect" which is an over used or accepted expression.Just because its all over the place that men likes light skinned girls doesn't mean its an accepted belief No! It isn't its just a cliche its not true.

Will you love it if your partner is dating you just because of your civilized skin?ask yourself,if you experience skin complications and eventually you go dark for a very longtime,do you think he will want to go on with you? Hell No! he wouldn't its at that point you will come to realise that he never loved you but your looks.

Most of These same men you try to please can differentiate a naturally light skinned lady from a skin civilised(bleaching) type,so don't be fooled.

Bleaching is a very dangerous process and your life and not that of the guys you are trying to please is at risk. What pains me most is the fact that these girls know they are at risk of skin cancer but they are still ignorant,because they feel ten thousand will fall at their right and a thousand at their to left but still no one will come near them,by the time cancer comes knocking at your door,you will come to the realization that cancer patients does exist.

You don't need to please anybody to love you,let's join hands together to make the joy of womanhood respected.

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Side Chick Alert! Discover If You Are His Side Chick With These Signs

The  worst that can ever happen to any girl is when, shes in a relationship with this guy and boom! She thinks she's just his right hand girl just because he showers her with this and thats
and eventually she  discovers she  was just his spare tyre, it's so painful but you just have to get used to reality.permit me to ask you but,what will you do if you find yourself in this situation?

 what baffles me most is the fact that these guys in question just know how to play their cards right,so you wont suspect them And sorry to say if you dont shine your eyes very well you will fall victim.

You might just come to a conclusion he's cheating on you when girl its just more than cheating its "killing" and lets face the fact,among those many girls they roll with theres just one he values and loves for real.

Good news is,they can't hide this for too long eventually you ought to see some dramas from him that shows you might just be his spare tire,Now this post is going to determine if you his spare tyre or not so read attentively.

Read also: 10 Signs you are with the wrong person

1. SEX ALWAYS RINGS IN HIS HEAD WHENEVR YOU ARE WITH HIM

Ever wondered why he always wants to sleep with you any time you two are together? he doesn't have any thing reasonable to say his most important topic is "sex" whenever you two are together he will always find a way to lure you to sex with him.

And the most annoying part of it all is,he does this every single time and when you turn down his request he will go mad at you and the only topic that ends it all is "Girl you don't love me if you do,you will sex with me" or he will start acting so strange to the extent you barely recognize him.

If you find yourself with this type of frustrated fellow run for your life because he want to Make a sex toy out of you.

2. YOU ALWAYS SEE A PARTICULAR GIRL ON HIS CALL OR DIAL SCREEN

For instance You guys are chilling out and you always see this particular girl "Frida" call him,not just once but any time you two are together then you should know he has a girl.

I know definitely you have noticed this,He always calls this girl,receives calls from her,uses her as his dp and you always wonder who she is,when you ask him who she was,expect one of these three answers from him,either he will say she's his cousin or his friend or his colleague at work,but still you are not satisfied..

Deary he's just a nutshell to can't crack!

3. HE NEVER USES YOU AS HIS DISPLAY PICTURE

He has never one day used your picture on his dp the only time he manages to do that is when its your birthday yay!

And when he does that watch out for his status,I know you will be expecting him to put "happy birthday to the only girl in my life sorry" dear but expect  a "happy birthday dear" on his status or "happy birthday may more yes ahead"

This shows he doesn't want his girlfriend, not you ooo I mean his real girlfriend to know there's more to it so when she sees happy birthday dear,she will feel you are just one of those his friend.

Girl he's a real Jack bauer!

4. HE DETESTS TAKING YOU ON OUTINGS ESPECIALLY IN THE DAY

He doesn't make attempt to take you out say to a restaurant,marriage ceremony,the cinema,birthday parties.

That's because he hates going out with you to a crowded place were many people will see  you both together,if at all he wants to take you out,mostly either he comes to to your pace or he wants you to go to his place..

Who does that?

5. WHEN IT COMES TO YOU HE REMEMBERS PRIVACY

On social media, he loves to show off about work,family,his achievements,business, blah blah bah! But try asking your self why doesn't he express his love for me on the same social network he uses to show off?

Girl it means you not part of his life ooo

6. INTRODUCES YOU AS FRIEND

He never introduces you as his girlfriend,infact he can't even try to add the girl to the friend whenever he is doing an introduction to his friends and even family.
Either he introduces you as friend or he doesn't introduce you at all.

Girl ask yourself is this life?

Read Also: 10 signs you are with the wrong person

7. YOUR INSTINCT KEEPS TELLING YOU HES NOT RIGHT

No matter how he might pretend to  show some love and care,your instinct still don't trust him..

Your instinct is just right dear.

8. HE HARDLY REMEMBERS THINGS YOU TOLD HIM ABOUT YOU

You have told him your birthday Is November 1st and that your best colour is red and the most annoying part of it all is that you didnt just tell him these if he didn't ask you.

 As time goes on you find him still asking you the same questions he asked you some days back.

Tell you what ,if he really loved you he won't forget those.


9. KNOWING HIS FAMILY IS A TABOO TO HIM

He will never mention you to his brothers and sistesr and he will never even think of bringing up famiy topics before you..

Dearie that's because his family knows his real girlfriend..

10. NO PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION

He never makes attempt to show any atom of public display of affection because he knows people are watching and news might reach his girlfriend or she might discover herself..

Now that you have read this I hope you believe your instincts for once

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