Friendship is a mutual affection between two or more persons.Your friend is someone who share a strong from of interpersonal bond than even an association.
Do you know your friends also play a roll in your relationship? I know you asking me how,now let me tell you how,The type of friends you keep could determine how you pilot the plane of your relationship reasons being that,they in every way can influence you either on a positive ground or on a negative ground.
At Some point in your lives you definitely must come across the good bad and the ugly ones,The type of friend you keep can build you or destroy you it all depends on if you can Know the bad and the ugly from the good.
I am going to show you some characteristics of these two types of friends,so if you wnt to confirm the type of friends you keep read on.
This will help you know who your friends are
1. THE GOOD FRIEND
• They are Hard to find,Yet in most cases they are around you but you might not know it.
•They don't boast to you that they are good friends to you,instead you see good friends in them.
•They Never want to see your relationship go Sour,If you find yourself having conflicts in your relationship,They try to give you the best advice.
•They laugh at your mistakes and sure get you back up to your feet.
•Yes! The truth is bitter but they tell you the truth.Because they know its better to tell you its fire than allow you know for yourself.
•Even at your back they will never betray you.
•Your Instinct keeps telling you they are Good for you,and in most cases you wish you knew them long time ago.
•Their Lifestyle portrays who they really are,you respect them because of how principled they are.
•When you are going astray,They try all their possible best to bring you back.
•They will always tell you if you wrong and give you reasons why you are,Should you have a fight with your patner.
•They are a good Source of example to you,that's why you look up to them.
•If you in most cases find your self telling them "what you said was really true" then you have a good friend who tells you the bitter truth,and won't want you to fall victim.
•A good friend will always respect your decisions,Even when they tell you they are against it,They will still respect it but deep down they know they've warned you.
•You always yield to their advice because you know they always give you the right advice And if you should go against their advice,you know you might regret it..so you won't want to fall into the "what you said was true" Situations all the time.
•They accept you for who you are No matter what.
•They are always with you,come rain or sunshine.
Now unto the bad friends..
2. BAD/UGLY FRIEND
hmmmm,they are the jack of all the evil deeds,The direct opposite of goof friends these types are everywhere.
Research has Shown that,Bad/ugly friends are the reasons behind relationship breakups.They are not necessarily ugly from the outside,They are like a very beautiful house from the outside,but from the inside they so scattered and ugly you will want to puke.
One thing about this type is that they don't just associate with,they associate with you for many reasons.Either for benefit,or to destroy you or your relationship.
•They are mostly attractive on the outside but on the inside they are so ugly (green Snakes).
•When you try to avoid them is when they come closer..but Bad friends sha!
•They can't keep your secrets never,your secret is their news report.
•They allow you get the scars from the burns Rather than make effort to stop you from getting burned up.
•They don't accept you for who you are instead,they accept you based on who they want you to be.
•People always tell you they are not good and tell you to stay away from them.Some of these persons will not tell you why they said so,they want you to get to know why they said so yourself,while some will tell you why straight up.
•when you experience rough times,thats when they forget you exist..
•They gossip you and your relationship to others.
•Please I know definitely you have come across this type and you won't want to even give them a percentage of our trust,Please if you notice this type of person always and so desperately warns you about your partner especially when you and your partner are having a smooth relationship.before you even believe them thats if you do,Notice these two things, if they are in a relationship,or if they are jealous when you encounter achievements. Chances are they want to destroy your relaionship,because they cant have what you have.Use these two tricks to know if you will stick to their advice or not.
Be careful this type never want your Progress.
•They don't enjoy your company and are not around you for long,they show less care,the only way they come around is for their benefit.
•Watch out for the pull-you-down syndrome,they have lots of it.I know you are wondering why some of your friends suffer from this problem,why they try to pull you down is,They want to be like you or be better than you but they see they can't reach your level,So they think the best thing to Fo is to reduce yo by trying to reduce you to nothing.
•When you are having a blissful relationship they burn inside,no matter who you are with,they will always show a type of attitude around them.intact run from this type of person ooo they can do anything to ensure your relationship is in shambles.
•When people look up to you and when they see friends around you,they Get angry leaving you to wonder why they are angry this is because they are jealous.
• I once had a friend who is never happywhen i look good and when i am filled with Joy. So, If you wondering why That your friend or some of your friends never compliment you when you look good,then you should know they don't want your success they Die inside when they see you look attractive because they feel you will turn peoples attention from them to you.
What baffles me about some persons is that even when they know or find out they are not keeping the right company they don't care any more,I don't just know if that's the latest trend or something.
Anyway it all depends on you.
