You want to be everyman's dream and not a nightmare right?
Now read through these tips below.
1. DRESS DECENT
As the saying goes,dress the way you want to be addressed.you dress like a prostitute and you want to go for a decent man,Excuse me,but did I just hear you say decent? Because its not possible.
Ever wondered why the indecent types come your way?then you've got to check what you put on before stepping out of the house. Indecent Dressing will only drive the decent ones.
2. BE YOURSELF
Never be a photocopied version of anyone,Do not claim to be what you re not, be real to yourself and to other.I mean what's the essence faking your personality?
If you love yourself you won't live a life that's not real,why not be an example. To others? no matter what be real.
3. LOOKING GOOD IS GOOD INVESTMENT
DO YOU solely and highly put business first?yes this is very important to tag on the priority list,but you also have to invest in yourself and not just on other thingsyou should know you are part of our business?always dress smart,look pretty make your hair well kept,you don't know who you will come across.
4. BE CONFIDENT
Be bold,be brave and be strong!!
5. LET UNIQUNESS BE YOUR TRADEMARK
Live your life based on you don't leave life like others do,live your life in a different way,see the beauty of life the way others do not see it,have a unique perspective about life.
There's no one who won't get attracted to a unique Lady.
5. BE PRINCIPLED
Set standards for yourself they it help alot.know what you love and have your limits,stand by you word,be decisive stick with living life in your own terms.
This will give you a level of high self esteem and people will see this in you and respect you and your intergrity.
6. THE COMPANY YOU KEEP TELLS WHO YOU ARE
What type of friends do you keep?Are they the type that drool on the clubs table? Flashes their cleavage?Smokes? These type of friends change your lifestyle negatively by their influence on you.To the extent you won' even know when you Have gone far in living life wild beyond repair.
I must tell you,the type of friends you keep can either make or break your personality.Of a truth one studying you from a distance could go into conclusions right there because of the type of persons you move with.
Having decent friends around you is being influenced positively by theirdecent lifestyle.
These days serious men do not just settle for a lady just like that,they make inquires about how you live your life,the friends you keep?and what you do with your life.
you won't evengg know this,thats why you keep wonderig why the right one doesn't exist...
7. BE INDEPENDENT
AS A Lady,ITS important you invest,Do not depend on anybody but you,have a strong entrepreneurial mentality,learn something that can put some cash in your account,think of something new.Do not wait for Mom or Dad to give you money for your upkeep,Or your future husband to lead you into greener pastures.
I am not saying indulge in illegal activities,that's not the only source of making a living it will only destroy you with time,Indulge in legal and decent jobs,be your own boss as time goes on you will discover your business has grown so big that you won't even be able to manage it on your own.that's when being an employee comes into practice.
8. BE A ROLE MODEL ON SOCIAL MEDIA
What example do you show to others on social meda.?are you the type that expose your body? Or you post nude pics just to get attention,or you post nasty status,and you feel you getting attention by becoming the Queen of Facebook or instgram or twitter,do you think this will help you? It will only destroyed you because you getting the wrong attention and tommorow when you want to hold a vital position,this alone can destroy your being approved and also a guy might be interested in you,and would just want to check you out on Fb,and sees the rubbish you display,do you think he will be serious with you?he will only use you and dump you.
Do you know that people are watching your every activities on social media?I guess you don't know this.Do things that will get the right attention,the earlier you command respect on social media by your positive post the better Fo you.
9. SHUN CHILDISH NICKNAMES
Point of correction,having a nickname isn't bad but it should have a reasonable reason. I have come across many nicknames that do not have meaning,and look so childish! I mean what's chibaby? Or "hotchick".Are you using it to get attention? Or to boost our personality?
Truth is your nicknames have the power to make or break your personality.
10. MAINTAIN GOOD HYGIENE
Do you know that the scent that follows you can force persons to chase after you or drive people from coming around you?Do you pay less attention to your body?and you feel just using deodorant will kill that poor hygiene? Sorry but truth is you only killing yourself and people around you.learn to maintain good hygiene.
Men loves a very cool Deodorant coming from a body with rich personal hygiene..
11. RESPECT YOURSELF
having a very high level of self respect is very important,when you do things that will soil your image you tend to make people take advantage of you.But self respect shuns this.
12. THINK LIKE A MAN ACT LIKE A LADY
Just because you a lady doesn't mean your thoughts are limited think the way a man who has responsibilities thinks,coz you also have responsibilities and act like the lady that you are..
Perfect
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